Thread: Please don't judge

I know, I know it's soon. But in all honesty I knew almost straight away I wanted to try again for another baby. It's not, and could never be, a replacement, and I know if it was someone else and not me I'd probably be thinking 'why not wait a little bit', but I can't even explain the need... every part of me, needs to be pregnant again so badly.
I'm totally terrified of the thought of it again don't get me wrong, I know it'll be 9 months of fear... and also a bit scared of the frustrations of TTC. But I'm very sure this is what I need to try and heal.

So yeah, that was my faffy way of saying I want to be in TTC, if I may?

Aw honey, I totally relate to that - there is never a too soon - it's whatever feels right to you! Of course no baby will ever replace Gabriel or take away the pain of his passing but wanting another baby in your arms is totally natural! Absolutely no judging from me!!!

Good luck and truckloads of baby dust to you!!! So hope it happens as quickly as your comfy with!

Babies are very healing, it is totally normal to want a baby as soon as you feel ready! I have everything crossed that it's a quick bfp for you

Good luck TTC, hope it comes quickly for you.

No judgement here either . I hope your TTC journey is enjoyable and easy.

Ahh thank you everyone. I felt almost queasy wondering if people would think I'm awful. Looking forward to looking forward if that makes sense... and peeing on lots of sticks!

I think everybody here would understand but even if we didn't you have to do what's right for you. None of us is in your shoes and you know yourself best.

I can totally understand that. You are the only one who can know what is right for you guys and it's no-one else's business. Best of luck with it and hope you don't have to wee on too many sticks before getting your BFP! xxx

How could we possibly judge, wishing you lots of luck and hoping you get a bfp soon xxx

None here either, in fact I think it's pretty common, I have a friend who is expecting a baby exactly one year following the death of her second baby.

Have some